{"id":2718,"date":"2024-02-12T14:36:23","date_gmt":"2024-02-12T14:36:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.drvinodhini.com\/?page_id=2718"},"modified":"2024-02-12T14:39:45","modified_gmt":"2024-02-12T14:39:45","slug":"is-god-mean","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.drvinodhini.com\/?page_id=2718","title":{"rendered":"Is GOD mean ?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"2718\" class=\"elementor elementor-2718\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7db58d5 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"7db58d5\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;content_width&quot;:&quot;boxed&quot;}\" data-core-v316-plus=\"true\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7fe34cc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7fe34cc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.18.0 - 08-12-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cGod sometimes is being Mean. Seriously, I feel that pain!\u201d, texted my patient, a wonderful 40 plus year lady when I texted her NICC report. Having undergone 2 previous IVFs and having 2 boys, she never had imagined that she would become pregnant again naturally! She found herself suddenly pregnant, at a difficult stage in her life, when she was totally unprepared! The first time I met her she said when I desperately wanted a child every one told me that I can\u2019t conceive naturally and I had to spend a large amount of money, not to mention the amount of mental stress to get pregnant. Now, this happens! WHY??? I had no answer!<\/p><p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being a vegetarian, just because she hated the idea of killing animals, she found herself caught in between the thoughts of termination versus continuing the pregnancy- a true moral dilemma! Though continuing the pregnancy would add extra financial constraints, her motherly instinct repelled the thought of termination and she decided to pursue. Having had 2 boys earlier, she had hoped for a girl, to give her a glimmer of hope and joy in her unexpected journey of pregnancy. But that was not to be as her chromosome screening report stated it was a boy, AGAIN!<\/p><p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The day I texted her report, I was just back from a difficult surgery for a recurrent ectopic pregnancy. She was a lovely lady, who had been just married for a year. Had just undergone a surgery for ruptured ectopic 2 months back. She had come to me for a second opinion for recurrent ectopic. Her Bhcg titre had declined slightly initially and she was absolutely asymptomatic. We had hoped for a conservative management under close observation for a tubal miscarriage. But again, that was not to be! Her BHcg started soaring up and not only did she have to undergo a surgery again in a short span of only 2 months but also lost her other tube, precluding any possibility of a natural pregnancy thereafter!<\/p><p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cGod sometimes is being Mean.\u201d This text lingered in my thoughts! Being a firm believer in the universal, supramental consciousness, that most of us call God, I wondered\u2026.<\/p><p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I had always believed and still believe that everything happens for the greater good! We humans have a limited vision that can only go so far and may not understand the grand scheme of things, in the unlimited vision of the universe! Who knows&#8230; the unwanted child of today may well turn out to be the most successful entrepreneur, a powerful leader or a famous person bringing glory to the family! And, for the lady who lost her tubes, she could have a successful single or even twin pregnancy through IVF! Only time can tell!<\/p><p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For now, I still believe in goodness of \u201cGOD\u201d, though for some it would mean viewing the world with a pair of tinted glasses!<\/p><p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, what do you think\u2026 IS GOD MEAN?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cGod sometimes is being Mean. 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